Hello Earthlings,
We all have the automatic answer for when a woman is abused in a relationship, ranging from, it might be a mistake, you should break up with him, you should dissolve the marriage, you should have him arrested, you should poison his food, you should iron his dick and so many other obscene answers.
Different types of reactions from all sorts of people, I wrote a post earlier on about the slap incident, many people asked the lady to cancel her marriage because the guy slapped her. To be in a life threatening situation for me throws all the rules out of the window., you have to prove the been a man is more than wielding that schlong in between your legs, it has to do with taking responsibilities for things.even in the most unbelievable situations.
Not like I would kill anyone or anything in such a situation, someone also made a valid point that he should have shook her up instead of slapping her but I guess not everyone reasons well under immense pressure.
Of all the preparations that you have had plus the personal decisions you’ve made, none prepares you for the moment when you as a guy get slapped by a woman.
In the heat of an argument and she slaps you right across your face, what will you do? A friend of mine responded by saying he will return the courtesy with 2 dirty slaps on her face, one from each hand landing on the two sides of her face respectively.
I don’t support domestic violence but as a guy, do you support my friend’s theory?
Another scenario, I have a female friend who slapped her boyfriend, need I tell you that the slap was the end of the relationship. The chic summoned everyone to help her plead with him but everything fell on deaf ears.
That was the end of that relationship. Kpakam!
It’s easy when this happens when it’s a dating thing. What if it’s marriage, imagine that your wife slaps you. What will you do?
Remember all that pleading people do with women who are married and abused by their husbands, people often tell them to think of their kids, how a divorce will affect their lives forever. Now my question is if the wife is the one dishing out the beating in the marriage, are we still gonna advise the husband not to hit a woman back and also stay in the marriage for the sake of the children.
I think it’s eternally ego crushing for a man to be beaten by his wife, I mean i can’t understand what will cause my wife to raise her hand to slap me. What I’ll do I don’t know, rather I can’t say it ni? But I cant imagine for the life of me.
It’s easier said than done, people say most times. I have a true life experience to share and no I wasn’t there when the husband got slapped.
A friend of mine has got these friends who are a couple with 2 kids between 3 & 5 years old. Really lovely couple, both work in banks and are very comfortable. One way or the other we heard the wife slaps the husband. They are the kind of couples that if someone had told you that about them, you would ignore it as gossip, but the source of the story is credible plus someone was eavesdropping on her and she had no idea she was divulging family secrets to the ever listening wall.
Okay, let me just tell you how my friend heard, My friend stays in the same compound as this married couple. It was a work day and they had all gone to work, their kids had gone to school leaving just the house help home alone, the house-help been the street flirt always has guys over once she’s home alone.
On this fateful day, one of the house-girl’s customers, a local okada rider in the area came as usual for some ‘smooching’ session which unfortunately and fortunately happened behind my friend’s window. They had been smooching each other for a while until the girl stopped and then slaps the okada man, the guy was furious but he didn’t hit her back but then he enquired why she slapped him and she said that’s how her madam slaps her husband and also tells their kids that she is richer than their father.
When my friend was playing the gist for me, I couldn’t believe my ears myself but the story couldn’t be further from the truth. The girl didn’t have any reason to falsify the story.
Meanwhile, for me anytime, I greet the guy, i always try to imagine his reaction when his wife slaps him, would he just walk away or does he return the favour by ‘woozing’ her. Theirs is a marriage and the worst part about all this is that the husband is also a pastor in church, a serious case of What Would Jesus Do?
I really don’t know what would make this lovely lady wooze her husband; this is me thinking it only happened once, what if it happens frequently? I’m just saying could it be the fact that she earns more than her husband? Could it be the fact that she’s easily provoked?
What will you do if your gf/wife slaps you?
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